Tuesday, February 15, 2011

what make love a love?

sometimes, i do wonder what make love a love.

recently, a close friend asked me a question that i didn't know how to answer: why is the need to have a partner? i was really stunning for few seconds before i could speak out a word. my brain, or rather my heart, just couldn't trace out a convincing answer.

well, i also wonder how long does love take to come to an end. i seriously don't believe in 'love you forever' this kind of bullshit, although i used to believe in it. another friend shared with me that lovers are based on love; while husband and wife are based on relationship. well, honestly i still haven't fully digested it.

some random question based on one of my friend's case:
will you choose dream or love if you ONLY can choose either one?
this question is kind of one-sided if you are single. but what's the case if you were currently having a partner who forcing you to choose. perhaps more like an approach of you want money which can fulfill you everything(include love) or you want dream which might depressed you(in terms of money).

2 comments:

  1. hard question man~

    maybe it'll be all clear if this love includes family love as well, right?

    to me, love is something u won't want until you meet someone that you want more of, be it sad or happy, it's still love

    once of a lifetime, jus live it, i guess~

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  2. hmm... sounds right.
    cherish your love one, bro.

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